It’s February, the month of expressing your love! Whether you are married, dating, or just want to have a Galentine’s Day, here are some fun and easy gifts you can get before the big day. Everyone knows a good candle is everything but have you considered doing something more activity oriented like making fresh pasta? I know that this Valentines day, me and the hubs are making fresh pasta and revisiting our old date night in habits. I’ll be setting the table and lighting the home with candles and flowers to make it feel moody and romantic even though we will be be having other guests. The night will be fun and eventful as we make fresh noodles with our guests and possibly a dessert.
Ok first off, who ever said that this was a possible way of living lied. I remember being pregnant and all of my friends and family (LITERALLY ALL) kept joking how soon ill have to box up my pottery and frames and dismantle all of of table scapes. I quickly replied with "Yeah right." The first few months of baby was fine but as I'm sure you've guessed, I soon had to box up my stuff. At this time I became a huge fan of shelves. High enough to present my pretty things but out of reach from the little tornado walking around in diapers.
I found that as little one started walking and running and playing with his toys, messes became a lot more inevitable. This is when I became a bigger fan of baskets. Specifically. Baskets with lids to hide the colorful plastic mess that was inside. I designated a basket for balls, one for random toys and a small one for his magnetic tiles/legos. I found that three baskets of toys was more than enough for a baby and even two. Occasionally I will go in and donate toys he isn't using regularly or he has outgrown. (See below for a few basket recommendations)
Michael is an accountant so he works most of the week including some Saturdays. While he doesn't have a ton of time to help around the house, we manage to schedule out our Sunday to include catching up on cleaning and finishing a couple small projects around the house. This includes getting all the laundry done, fresh sheets on the bed, not just a sweep but a mop of the floor, and occasionally things like clearing out the whole refrigerator and organizing a part of the house. This makes it fun and a lot easier to maintain throughout the week. Using clear organizing trays make this so much easier to stay on track but an occasional deep clean helps.
And of course, I probably don't even need to spell this one out but when we clean, our baby cleans too. We even got him the play cleaning set so when we mop the floors, he gets right in their with his own mop. It’s literally one of the cutest things i’ve seen that involved a mop. The goal is to teach that this is a regular thing of living in a home and taking care of your things. And did I mention how motivating it is when he gets all excited when the broom and dust pan come out! That's called multitasking.
Anyways, long story short, it’s not impossible to have a home that is pretty and Pinterest ready at least half of the time while having a toddler. It just takes love, planning, and a lot of organizing. Check out these products below to help you get organized.
A back yard remodel managed to direct me to Mexico when my client wanted a Mexican tile rug in her outdoor dining set up. Fortunately LA is so close and we had our passports so it seemed silly to not go straight to the source. Ill have another post about this back yard project but we are here to talk about how to shop in Mexico. If you need to see pictures of the project, follow our progress under my Interior Design page under "Black/White Backyard".
First off, we had a mission; Mexican tile. If we got nothing else on this trip that would have been ok so we made sure to prioritize during this quick two day shopping spree. We started in Rosarito where there were a couple large tile shops along the main road. Our first tile store stop was actually a great success and despite only getting half of the tile there the first day, we actually returned the next day to get the bigger tile as well as we realized from shopping around that it was the best pricing. That brings me to my first tip, buy when you are sure. There is no returning things so when it is a big purchase, shop a couple stores to make sure you are not jumping the gun.
Once we got the tile we explored the neighboring stores. This particular project is actually using minimal color and if you know anything about Mexican tile, you will know it is anything but that. So this made it easier to just admire from a distance at all of the Talavera with the exception of just a couple gift purchases. What you will learn is every price is negotiable. I found that when buying multiple pieces from the same vendor, it was easier to negotiate. For example, say you see a planter and it is $50, offer $75 for two. It is harder for the vendor to pass up $75. Treat it like its an all or nothing deal. That brings me to my next big point. Don't treat it like their pricing is fair or unfair. Think of it as you are working with a budget and trying to spread it out. And if you need to say I only have $20 bill left for this trip, you would be surprised just how much they will help you spend that bill. But always always always show gratitude when they work with you. And try to bring cash as much as possible. Most vendors only take cash but if they do take card it might add a charge. This brings up a sort of elephant in a room. Using a card can lead to information stealing. There was absolutely a time I was at the pharmacy on this trip and I'm almost positive I saw someone take down my card information. At the end of the day I'm not terrible worried about it because if something happens I can dispute it with my bank but it just goes to show that cash is better all around.
Below is a list of items we purchased and the price. Beware, the prices are insanely good and it might make you want to go down to Mexico yourself just to score some great finds. A couple things I did not purchase but definitely saw a great deal on were cement planters, marble and granite slabs, and huge live edge dining tables.
Cow Skull and Horns - $25 each. We bought two which had great horns and no crazy creepy holes in the head from the slaughter house. =/
Cement Hand Chair AND Gray Large Chimnae - $125 total (holy crap, right?!)
Mexican Blankets - $10 each
Leather Sandals - $25 each pair
Sacred Heart Mirror - $85
Tile - Total purchase was $650 for tile rug and planter
White Gold Hoop Earrings - $40 (the jeweler also did an acid test for us to prove the quality)
Talavera Sun - $30
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I spent this morning acting like a New Yorker while in New Jersey. I snuggled the cats in bed while I sipped on my DIY pumpkin spiced latte, tanned my freshly manicured feet (Let’s be honest, that is all that I am going to reveal this Winter anyway), and stumbled into the local Dry Cleaners in tattered sweatpants to pick up my favorite sweater. Ahhh, welcome home to my favorite sweater!
For anybody who knows me, I am a royal pain in the ass to shop with. Put me in any clothing store - even my favorite - and I will meander around for a good twenty minutes, touching things and contemplating what it is I actually NEED before I even dare to try something on. Like most people, I have my shopping comfort zones. Unlike most people, I am constantly trying to break that zone and wander into something daring and different to reflect my sparkly, chaotic, worldly soul. Or, at least that’s what I tell myself. I usually end up walking away with a single item. Yesterday, I shopped for three yours only to bring home a discounted pair of sparkly Kate Spade earrings which, as you probably guessed it, I paired with my tattered sweatpants this morning.
I remember the day that I purchased that sweater. I was living in California and had just gotten a call back saying that I was selected to become an Advocate for survivors of sexual assault. This meant that I would spend six hours every week supporting men and women in the hours immediately following a sexual assault. It felt so spot-on for me to be the one holding up, talking to, laughing with, and comforting a complete stranger in what could, arguably, be considered one of the most vulnerable moments in their life. My mom gave me her Nordstroms credit card and told me to go get something that fit the “business casual” attire guidelines for the agency. I knew I would be working the overnight shift in a cold building so I figured I would start by finding a sweater - something cozy and comforting. Naturally, I took my sister with me.
My sister is much more sure of herself when she is shopping. She is clear about her image and what she likes but she is a designer so she has an unfair advantage. With her help, I eventually found a long, crocheted, beige sweater. It’s one of those sweaters that doesn’t actually keep you warm because the holes are so big but you throw it over a tank top, call the look hippie-chic, and imagine yourself as a layering goddess. It’s one of those sweaters that does not count as a whole “top” and, really, it forces way more wardrobe planning time than a sweater should require. I twirled around in the poorly-lit dressing room falling in love with this stupid sweater before I even looked at the price tag. Worst. Mistake. Ever. My sister sat in the room with me and explained how important it is to get something you love even if it costs a little extra because you will probably love it for a little extra time and I eventually gave in and purchased it. The budget my mom had set for me was completely blown on this damn sweater.
Fast forward six years and I am across the country picking up that same sweater. I don’t pair it with Uggs and leggings like I used to but it has incorporated itself nicely into my Autumn layers. It reminds me that, when I don’t trust my gut, I should at least trust my sister. In some silly poetic way, it is also the perfect example of how the women in my life help shape me. There are so many little stories like this where a girlfriend of mine has taught me something small but impactful. My morning coffee and to-do list routine is owed to my friend, Lauren, who is one of those insanely productive morning people. My skin care regime is something my friend, Isabel, suggested briefly while using me as a test model for her makeup artist interview. Those Kate Spade earrings I purchased yesterday were actually me just copying my friend, Kristina, who somehow always looks like a million bucks even if she spent the whole night drinking rose. The list goes on and on.
Today, I am living in New Jersey and commute to New York where I am a Case Manager for men and women coming out of our correctional facilities and into their first apartment ever. My clients have a long history of mental health challenges, substance abuse habits, homelessness, and incarceration. They face gigantic hurdles every day and the job is often tiring. There are some days where a client relapses and other days where a client celebrates three years of sobriety. It is an honor to continue to be welcomed into the vulnerable (and often times lonely) corners of a person’s life. I wish that all of my clients had the level of support that I get from the powerful women in my life.
If you have been following me at all then you won’t be surprised that I love a good challenge at a flea market. But lets back up a week when my lovely client asked me to consult her on a mirror for over her antique, bone and gold inlay table. She had picked out a hand full of gold antiqued mirrors from various websites and shops that send catalogues up the ying yang. They all looked relatively similar with just minor detail changes. While I did actually like them all, my concern was that they were not authentic as her table was. Something in my gut said they would take away from the table by trying to match instead of compliment. That is a huge subject in interior design my little proteges. Find something to stand out in the room and let that piece be your focal point. Everything else will work for it. So let it all “Work, Work, Work Work Work…”
I politely picked a mirror for client and said that I picked the one with the least detail for all of the above reasons. BUT also said something along the lines of “If you really want to know what I would do if it were my space, I would paint the mirror a dark blue to match your other accent pieces. No black. No gold. No white. Less predictable.” And I kid you not I was so surprised when she said “Let’s do it.” (Insert shocked super excited emoji here) Well I wasn’t about to let her refinish a $400 mirror so let the flea marketing begin! So we set an appointment to scope out the local flea market in two weeks.
You may or may not know that going to a flea market looking for something specific is a COMPLETE gamble. Especially one as small as the one we were going to in both of our neighborhoods. I went to the market about 30 minutes before she came just to scope out what they had and start haggling before. And I was surprised to find two runner ups. But one had my attention. It was a lot more intricate and…well here is a picture of it….
I mean…..HELLOOOOOO SEXAY THANG. Am I right? I had my navy blue filter glasses on and it was a prime suspect of perfection. I saw it! I immediately attempted to show client but of course I couldn't find it at first so we stumbled upon a couple more. But we found it. She was a little hesitant. The birds were not her thing and the pagoda on the top was not giving it the right scale. So we popped them off!
Several coats of paint later and some sawing, sanding and filling, we have an ecstatic client with a one of kind piece of jewelry for her home. See pictures below to see transformation.
Stay tuned for final project pictures of the table accessorized and the room finalized!
My home is a guest house I rent on my parent's property. It is the art work I put on the walls; some of which I painted myself or I collected from fellow art students. It is the flooring my fiancé and I picked out as the first fixer-up project we did when he moved in. And by we I fully mean him because he is way more capable of handy work. It is the bedding that could be more white and spot free but also shows that our little baby boy spends time cuddling and eating there with us. Dare I say, it is the collection of THINGS. It is the people that live in it and the many people that visit it. It is the collection of things from the journey to get here. It is my 560 square foot of safe haven.
Through out my interior design career, I have helped people create "home". For some, that meant walking into a showroom and saying effortlessly and without question of the price, "I'll take all of that vignette." While I admire their braveness that that chunk of product will somehow magically look just as good in their home despite different lighting and floor plan, it seems so irrelevant and subjective. On the other end of the spectrum, I've also worked with some that collected their whole lives and for some reason had to start over and get "new". Ive seen them shake and cry and get upset that the idea of "new" was no longer a fresh and exciting idea but an actual scary and heart aching process. People who came in saying, "Yes! Let's revamp my space. Please help me. I AM READY." But these same clients then left saying "I just can't part with my 20 year old sofa." From a sales perspective, this was the WORST kind of client. They were the most time consuming and maybe for some they were eventually possible to "tackle". But for my empathetic little designer heart, I didn't want to tackle them. I actually quite admired their attachment to their things. I liked listening to their memories about the family they raised with their Ethan Allen sectional. It wasn't some Italian designer made piece. But, it was theirs. And it was their people's. And no matter where they moved, it would always fit. (Hypothetically of course!) But these are the things that mattered for them. And I cannot help but admire that.
There are two types of people who are out there; the people that think home is a building to fill and the people who build a home out of sentiment. While the latter makes them more vulnerable to loss, it also gives the warmest feeling when they walk into their space. A feeling of belonging. A feeling of an embrace. "Home" is not far off from "Love".
Rule of thumb. Bring a bit of black into every room. Why? Because we have a tendency to forget contrast which leads to rooms feeling like they could literally float away. But I digress. I will definitely post a separate blog about how to incorporate black. But for now, let's oggle over my latest DIY refurbish project!
I have literally had this white dresser since I shared a room with my twin sister circa 2003. That room included pink and purple walls, meticulously picked out by my twelve year old self with pride! The dresser was adorned with a matching jewelry box attachment and vanity mirror which graced too many Myspace selfies. I've kept it because it was just a piece that I got used to. And despite it's undeniable girly-ness, was practical in size and storage space. A couple years ago I did remove the jewelry box and mirror making it a little more grown up but not by much.
Well last week I figured instead of spending a couple hundred that I don't have on a new dresser, I would slap a fresh layer of white paint on this one. But if I was going to repaint it, why not do something more unique! I knew right away I was going to do black. Because I am a brave soul who had nothing to lose except high school memories. Which is more than ok.
After removing the frilly handle pulls, I added crisp acrylic handles since I really am obsessed with modern mixed with traditional. But to bring some of the frill back, I added a wood overlay on either side of the dresser as an ode to it's original state. Plus, it would make the piece a good photographing piece from very angle.
I think it looks beyond bad ass and can only imagine it in my next, larger home where it can take center stage in perhaps a guest room or Parker's room. Here is a list of supplies it required:
Primer- $20 (more than enough so I will be keeping this for future refurbishes)
Black Paint - $10 Nightclub by Behr
Sandpaper - $5 from Walmart
Paint brush - $15 total. One for primer. One for paint. Although i preferred using my old craft brushes which were much cheaper anyways because they didn't leave brush lines in the paint.
Acrylic Pulls - About $5 each from Home Depot totaling in $40
I am debating getting a piece of smoke glass cut for the top of it to really make it look polished but still waiting for a quote for that. Other than that, a couple fresh felt pads for underneath to protect my floors and it's better than new! So all in all this project cost me about $100. Which is more than I planned but well worth the facelift if you ask me.
I could look at RH and Kelly Wearstler and Room&Board all day. But right now, as a recent grad and as a new mom, I can't afford it. And that's OK. Because I know I am not alone. And I also know I love my home and despite it being created on a budget, I feel like showing it off to anyone who wants to tour all three rooms of it. I want to lay out a couple of my tips and resources for you all who are also not at financial cloud 9 YET so you can still feel proud of your home.
1. HomeGoods - I visit my local HomeGoods store more than I would like to admit. And honestly, it is Baby's favorite store. I mean he literally has so much to look at. And almost every time I go there I see something that blows my mind. I have found interior designer gold here that looks designer. I was there recently with a friend and they had these charming gold cactus frames in two sizes. I think both together totaled under $10. Neither of us needed more frames but I simply said "If we walked into Jonathan Adler and saw these priced at $50 each, we wouldn't think twice. We would buy them right then and there." Perspective is everything. Don't let the price tag confuse you when you find a great deal.
2. Amazon - The simple things can be purchased on Amazon. Think bed sheets. Organizational containers. Frames. Candles. If you have already found a product you like, it's even easier to just do a quick search and one click purchase.
3. Estate Sale/Garage Sale - This is a new one for me. Actually, growing up we did this a lot but waking up that early didn't really sit well with my early twenties. But now, with a baby who wakes up early anyways, I love finding an estate sale. See my previous blog where I got a set of 12 silver napkin rings for a total of $5. Estate sales usually lend to better finds because there is no sentimental attachment between objects and seller. And they are literally selling EVERYTHING in the house.
4. Flea Markets - Sometimes still pricey, but sometimes just as good as an Estate Sale. I am going to the Los Angeles Flea Market this Sunday at Pierce College and will write a blog about any good finds on there. And remember, you won't always find stuff. Use these for inspiration too.
5. IKEA Hacks - OMG IKEA Hacks are insane! I see websites that cater specifically to how to upgrade your IKEA furniture with wood overlays and fancy hardware. I love it! But just remember, these hacks too add more money to a low budget furniture piece. So if you are really on a budget, these are great for those IKEA pieces you already have. Don't go buying all new IKEA furniture and expect it to not cost a chunk.
6. Refurbish - I am currently repainted and adding new hardware to a dresser I have had for going on 17 years. What took me so long to do this is beyond me. But stay tuned for that blog post coming up.
7. Holiday Sales - Look, I always say mix expensive with inexpensive. So yes you have to buy that designer throw pillow occasionally to dress up your HomeGoods pillows. But, holidays lend to amazing deals. There will always be a sale. So don't be afraid to ask your salesperson when the next sale is. And if they don't know and you just have to have it, leave your contact for them to reach out to you when the price lowers. Don't feel bad about this. That salesperson also wants to make a sale and while they may not be able to control the pricing, they will at least notify you when it is on a little extra President's Day discount!
Hope this helps for you to reach your interior design bliss! Comment below to tell me about some awesome finds you have had.
Since Michael and I have made it a point to have dates, but we also have our cute little side kick, Baby Parker, we have opted to do our own little dinner dates at home. I really should give credit where credit is due though. I told Michael one weekend I wanted something nice done that night. I was thinking laundry or clean the floors. But what I came home to was our coffee table dressed up in linens and glasses and tons of candles that I had never seen. He spent the whole day purchasing things to make it feel elegant as we sat on pillows on the floor and it meant so much to me! And something about being able to include Baby Parker made it more special.
So now we are trying to do these dinners every week and take turns. For Valentines Day though we decided to do it together. I set the table with this pink blanket I got from Olvera Street a couple years ago. I used some framed pictures to make it feel more personal. And candles everywhere!
Because of these dinners we have decided to do our birthday a joint birthday this year and set up a big dinner party for our family and close friends. So i'm currently on the mission to collect crystal glassware and napkin ring holders. I scored this week a dozen silver napkin rings that reminded me of Kate Spade. They were $5 for all 12 so it was worth it. I figured the worst case I could spray paint them to make them a little more modern. But I found this recipe to polish silver with just vinegar and baking soda. And they came out super shiny!!! Check out the pictures below and let me know if you think they are too grandma or so Kate Spade.
First off, I want to clarify that my baby currently does not have his own room. So I'm not going to pretend I have some huge house and ample space to do everything I wanted for his nursery. However, with just a portion of my own room, I still feel like I gave him everything he needed and more. And by he needed, I mean that I needed in order to feel like I poured my heart into it.
The whole nursery started off with my discover of one of my favorite illustrators, Charlie Harper and his product line through Land of Nod. I was obsessed with his black and white sheet designs and decided from there I would start with Black and White and then add really bright color. And my color challenge was incorporating pink because I liked the idea of baby boys being exposed to pink too.
Again, not a lot of space to work with so it was all in the details. I painted some creatures on the wall for my little man because what kind of mom would I be if I didn't?! But I tried to imitate Charlie Harper's illustrative style as much as possible.
Then I featured a little bed side floating shelf from Ikea with little animals Michael and I picked up from different places. One of which was the trip we took to the San Diego Zoo when I was pregnant. (The trip Michael proposed to me) These little figurines were from all over the world and we liked bringing in that ethnic exposure to the baby's room.
Which reminds me! The sole reason I wanted to bring color was because my rad sister brought me a handmade mobile from Madagascar. Like HANDMADE! And it was pink with a little yellow. So of course I had to incorporate that.
The rest was just little details. A gifted Jonathan Adler giraffe ceramic nightlight. A striped rug from Target that I really do wish was more crisp white but will probably replace it at some point. And Michael's beautiful handmade sign straight out of a Pinterest board. I mean, could he be any more of a cuter Daddy?! Yeah, no.
I hope you guys like it and as you know, no room is ever really "done". It will change as we get a bigger space and as little man gets bigger and bigger.